Comments on the
occasion of my Retirement from the Navy
June 2, 1995
Before continuing
further with my comments, I want to thank each of you for being here today to
celebrate my retirement. I joined the
Navy on October 7th, 1971, more than twenty-three years ago, and a great deal
has happened since that day. I can say
with some assurance, after this long period of service, that I retire having
enjoyed many wonderful experiences and the memories of serving with the finest
people a man could ever hope to call shipmate.
Among the first things I would like to do is credit my success to those,
I had the pleasure to serve with.
My first command was
the USS Leahy (DLG-16) and while serving onboard, I had the privilege of
knowing several fine Chief Petty Officers.
William (Bill) Frankhowser was my first Chief and later Senior Chief
Gary Gradel gave me guidance. Senior
Chief Gradel was particularly special.
He gave me a chance to fail and to later succeed. Believe it or not, I was not always a perfect
sailor. Sometimes, I got into a little
trouble but Senior Chief Gradel never lost interest in me and neither did my
Department Head CDR George Womble, who believed that people deserve fair
treatment and an opportunity to be successful.
CDR Womble is here today and it is with a sincere heart that I say; CDR
Womble, I have never had an opportunity to thank you for your patience until
now. I would not have had a career if
you had not been a patient but firm leader.
Thank you for making this day possible for me, I could never have
succeeded without you.
After leaving the
Leahy, I served with other Chief Petty Officers who provided strong role
models. MSCM Ronald Herrick while
stationed at NAVMARCORESCEN Folsom, PA,
OSC Jerry Batton on USS Nassau, and BMCM Richard Konopka on USS
Wisconsin. Each of these men left a
little of themselves imprinted on me and from them, I learned the craft of
being a Chief and leading men. Today as
I myself leave the Navy, I hope that I leave behind some measure of these men in
those that I have lead.
My second task
today is to speak about friendship. If
there is one thing, I have learned in my life its that the writer was correct
in saying "No man is an island."
The need for human interaction, kindness, and friendship are universal
and no man has been more blessed with friends than I. There is an old saying in the Navy, that you
don't have friends just naval acquaintances.
Well this may be true for some but not for me. As I look around, I see the faces of friends
all around me. I have two particularly
good friends who have worked very hard to make this ceremony perfect for
me. Scott and Mitch, I thank you for the
efforts you have gone to, in order to make this a memorable day, and for putting up
with me as the time for retirement came closer and the pressure grew. Additionally, I have many other friends and
family here with me. The Four Winds
Sunday School Class from Virginia Beach United Methodist Church who have been a
rod to which, I clung. You were always there
when Barbara and I needed you. When, I
was deployed to the Persian Gulf for Desert Shield and Desert Storm you
provided love, prayer, food, and comic relief (David Letterman's Top 10
lists). I don't know what, I would have
done without each of you and the little joys you brought to my life.
I have left the
hardest and most emotion filled part of this until last. I need to thank my family for the love and
support, which they alone could provide.
I am not an easy person to live with and they have
always allowed me to be myself. Tomorrow
is my 17th wedding anniversary. I love
you Barbara and I realize that I could not be the man, I have become without
you. For my children Matthew and Carolyn,
I will no longer have to go away from
you on cruises and deployments. let us
remember fondly those trips to the pier to see daddy off at 0600, but let us
also look forward in the knowledge that I am home now and we are going to build
a new set of memories beginning today.
To my sister, I say; Sis I am so happy that you were able to come here
today and be part of this. You were just
a little girl, twelve years old, when I joined the navy and now you have grown
into a beautiful and sensitive woman with whom I look forward to re-building family
ties.
Lastly and most importantly, I need to thank two people who
are with me only in spirit. I need to
thank my father Ronald Day and mother Henrietta Day for having me as their son
and giving me the ability to make a decent man of myself. While you are gone from my sight; you are
seldom far from my thoughts.
I hope that you can be proud of me.
Again, I want to
thank you all for coming today
Written and presented by Mark R. Day. Copyright Mark R. Day 2 June 1995, all rights reserved.